Let's just start out by saying he comes third right now - I do acknowledge that.
I have a 2 year old, a four month old and 2 weeks ago I went back to my really demanding job. I am also wanting to start up a diet. Yes, I am neglecting my husband, but I really need some time to adjust to all of this. I would rather him be mad at me, then neglect my children.
Last night he went out to the bar and came home and wanted to make out. He came home exactly 6 mins after the baby finally went to sleep an I was scooping some online TV and enjoying my first few minutes of quiet time in a long time. I said I wasn't in the mood, but it would be great if he cuddled on the couch with me or talked a little. I wasnt in the mood to fling my clothes off that second. So he got all mad and went to bed. I went to bed too and tried getting him to talk to me. It didn't happen. Now today (which is our agreed upon me-day, he gets Mondays) I told him I was trying to download a book and he asked if I was ever going to work on our marriage, and if I was ever going to read our marriage books.
He is important, but can't he realize I just need to take care as many things as I can right now and just be understanding? How can I make him understand he is important to me, and I need this time right now and I will make it up to him. It's not like he hasn't done it to me. I can't enjoy some much needed me time if I just feel like I'm disapointing him all the time. But I need to work on myself before I can be of any use to him. (put on your air mask first before helping your neighber) If I say the wrong thing, then he gets mad and won't listen to anything else. I just need a break!!! Help!
Asked by Anonymous at 11:52 AM on Jan. 30, 2011 in Relationships
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