My brother is married to a woman who after 7 years realized she was a lesbian. That is fine, the problem is that she DID cheat on my brother ( she has been with this woman for the last year but has also slept with 2 other men in the last year) , not only that but when she left to go live with her girlfriend and her girlfriends kids, she left my 7 year old nephew. She sees him MAYBE once a week..... I think she is horrible -- NOT because she is gay but because she cheated and basically abandoned her child...
So now since she left I have my nephew most of the time ( my brother works alot at weird hours ) .. love my nephew and I love spending time with him, but it makes me mad because I am doing his mothers job....
I would be just as angry if she left for a man, but she is making it sound like the only reason we are upset over this is because she is gay... we have no problems with her being gay ( or anyone that is gay ) ... She is trying to use it as a default to make up for what she has done but then still uses it as an excuse too ... ( basically she is saying * this is what I am, but you cant say this is what I am) ... We live in a small area and making everyone think that we are keeping her child from her because she is gay ... ( when actually I will call her to come spend time with him and she will say she is coming, but then not show up).
I know this is rambling, but I am just so angry... what would you do or say ? My brother is just acting like he is going through the motions of the day and he is upset but says he doesnt know what else to do either ( she also left him to pay a HUGE mortage and utilities for a house that she wanted by himself, so he now also has to get another job )
Asked by Anonymous at 1:30 PM on Jan. 30, 2011 in Relationships
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