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Do you think its ok for you S.O to have females on there fb

my dh adds woman everyday and doesnt see it as a problem am i the only one that thinks its wrong i think if your married you shouldnt be on fb all day with other woman or even be adding theml ike that

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Asked by Jocelynn18 at 5:09 PM on Jan. 30, 2011 in Relationships

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  • that is a bit weird.

    Answer by febmom007 at 5:11 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • If he knows them and there is nothing going on the yes it is okay, adding random females all the time though for no reason other than chatting then I would question why he is doing that.

    Answer by DeansMother at 5:11 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • I see nothing wrong with it as long as he is not chatting with them all the time or clicking on their pages to see there photos.

    Answer by 1911 at 5:13 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • yes, if i know who they are.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 5:15 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • he randomly adds girls from other females pages and he adds all the girls at his job and he messages thenm all day and he has changed his email so i cant seee what he writes so am i now wrong for wondering

    Comment by Jocelynn18 (original poster) at 5:15 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • My husband has females on his fb. They are relatives, friends, school acquaintances... and I don't have a problem with it. If he added random women daily I might ask him why?

    Answer by Sharell8710 at 5:16 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • If they were just friends I would have an issue But if he was adding random women and hiding what he talks about I would have a major issue with it.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 5:19 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • Sounds like he may be doing something else, but my husband has friends from highschool on his FB, and I don't care. I have no reason to worry!

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 5:21 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • My husband doesnt do that but my ex used to do those things. Me and my husband mostly use FB now for people we actually know in real life. I would be really pissy if my husband added random women he didnt know to FB. That would be a huge red flag to me.

    Answer by gemgem at 5:23 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • My boyfriend has a smallish list on his FB, but I know one is an ex. I don't care though since he has no interest in her now in that way. He does keep in contact with some ladies from his past, but I don't mind because I have been friends with ex's and such as well. We're pretty open and totally love each other so I don't worry.

    Answer by rio_burb at 5:56 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

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