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Do you think its ok for you S.O to have females on there fb

my dh adds woman everyday and doesnt see it as a problem am i the only one that thinks its wrong i think if your married you shouldnt be on fb all day with other woman or even be adding theml ike that

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Jocelynn18

Asked by Jocelynn18 at 5:09 PM on Jan. 30, 2011 in Relationships

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  • that is a bit weird.
    febmom007

    Answer by febmom007 at 5:11 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • If he knows them and there is nothing going on the yes it is okay, adding random females all the time though for no reason other than chatting then I would question why he is doing that.
    DeansMother

    Answer by DeansMother at 5:11 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • I see nothing wrong with it as long as he is not chatting with them all the time or clicking on their pages to see there photos.
    1911

    Answer by 1911 at 5:13 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • yes, if i know who they are.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 5:15 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • he randomly adds girls from other females pages and he adds all the girls at his job and he messages thenm all day and he has changed his email so i cant seee what he writes so am i now wrong for wondering
    Jocelynn18

    Comment by Jocelynn18 (original poster) at 5:15 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • My husband has females on his fb. They are relatives, friends, school acquaintances... and I don't have a problem with it. If he added random women daily I might ask him why?
    Sharell8710

    Answer by Sharell8710 at 5:16 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • If they were just friends I would have an issue But if he was adding random women and hiding what he talks about I would have a major issue with it.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 5:19 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • Sounds like he may be doing something else, but my husband has friends from highschool on his FB, and I don't care. I have no reason to worry!
    Musicmom80

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 5:21 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • My husband doesnt do that but my ex used to do those things. Me and my husband mostly use FB now for people we actually know in real life. I would be really pissy if my husband added random women he didnt know to FB. That would be a huge red flag to me.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 5:23 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • My boyfriend has a smallish list on his FB, but I know one is an ex. I don't care though since he has no interest in her now in that way. He does keep in contact with some ladies from his past, but I don't mind because I have been friends with ex's and such as well. We're pretty open and totally love each other so I don't worry.
    rio_burb

    Answer by rio_burb at 5:56 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

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