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Do u think a man should give up porn if he has an affair?

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Asked by NaiveDream at 6:43 PM on Jan. 30, 2011 in Relationships

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  • No, he should give it up out of respect of his wife if she doesn't like him looking at it. If he had an affair he should be out on his ass in the ice cold snow.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 6:45 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • i don't think it should matter. i would not ask my man to give up porn if he had an affair. i don't think they have porn in the hospital................. in other words, if he had an affair, i would not care what he did, 'cause i would hurt him and then leave him! :)

    Answer by itzmyzoo at 6:46 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • i don't think it would make much of a differance porn or an affair... there both not good.

    Answer by Lynnsae at 6:46 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • These are completely diff IMO. Porn is an addiction and an affair is just as bad. If he is cheating and watches porn then thats a double whammy!

    Answer by Steph319 at 6:48 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • One does not lead to the other - it would be like saying should a woman give up chocolate because she had an affair. Um, no, but she should be prepared to give up her husband.

    Answer by scout_mom at 6:54 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • If you demand he takes away the porn,he may be hesitant to go to strip clubs behind your back so keep that in mind

    Answer by cocoamom03 at 6:59 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • The woman should give up the man who's addicted to porn and has an affair.

    Answer by Kathy675 at 7:00 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • If he has an affair, should he give up porn???? What???? I don't have the slightest idea what your mindset is.. I'm sorry if this sounds rude! It is WRONG to have an affair. He does not NEED porn or a mistress.. He needs to get his act together or he needs to get the h#$$ out of your life. You also need to get your act together and find a man who treats a wife with respect!

    Answer by momofonelilguy at 7:05 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • If he had an affair I would tell him get the fuck out and porn would be his new best friend.

    Answer by MyOpionCounts at 7:16 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

  • Nope! Cause I'd kick his sorry ass to the curb take him to the cleaners and the only thing he would have left in his pathetic life would be porn.

    Answer by MizLee at 7:31 PM on Jan. 30, 2011

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