I adore my husband, but he's done some pretty hurtful things and I don't know how to forgive him and look ahead.
Issue 1: His family is more important - and they're possessive !
Issue 2: He neglects me in public.
When we meet his friends or family, he just forgets to introduce me, forgets to physically or emotionally show me he's there for me. I've been ignored for too long.
On the other hand, he knows how to complement his friends' wives, how to make them feel special. He says it's only social, but still I feel he flatters these other women more than me.
3. As a result of problem 1 + 2, we tend to spend 3 wonderful days, and on day #4 we have a TERRIBLE, LOUD FIGHT.
My issue : I feel hurt for # 1 or #2.
His issue: He feels it's not a big deal. He expects me to move on and ignore my hurt feelings.
We interrupt eachother and ofter shout to make sure our point is heared. When we're tired, we stop talking, we hug eachother and feel so much love and passion again, for about 3 days. Then another similar fight takes place with the same issues and identical dialogues.
PLEASE HELP US, WE LOVE EACHOTHER BUT ARE TRAPPED IN BAD COMMUNICATION !
Asked by Anonymous at 7:46 PM on Jan. 30, 2011 in Relationships
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