how is that statement even plausible? ok so heres the downlow, my ex friend emailed me today after i told her where to go a few months ago. at that time i confided in her about feeling lonely and i was upset that my dh was still cheating(soon to be ex husband i filed for divorce) and i told her i found someone else i was interested in but he wasnt the reason i wanted to leave. i wanted to leave cause dh got someone else prego and dna came back as his. after she swore up and down and promised she would say anything to my husband, she went behind my back and said a bunch of stuff and i actually didnt know the extent of it until she told me in the email. i got pissed at her cause while i was out gettin groceries a few months ago she had called and chewing me out cause my husband was upset that i was gone so long and that i needed to get him right away. i told her that i didnt need a mom that i already have one and it wasnt her place to fuel the fire between me and my husband.
so not only did she tell me in the email today everything she told my husband about me but also it was her idea for him to find another woman. i came close to forgivin my husband for the other baby but when i found out he was having another affair, that was it. and find out from him that the ex friend was tellin him i was cheatin when i wasnt, i was just thinking about it(i know still not right). she just made what problems we had worse by doing this he said she said bs, and then acts like she did me the favor. really?
im not sayin she is the reason we are divorcing cause we have a lot of issues but she sure as hell didnt help any either. and by the way the guy i was interested in is just a friend, i got my head on straight and realized that another man wasnt the answer.
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