We are all in our 30s, definitely not high school but OMG sometimes the cliquish BS feels like that. OK, so in my daughters preschool, most of the moms hang out together. I would say at least 7 of them are BFFs. Well, I enrolled my DD a year ago and have been invited to a few birthday parties and moms night out, BUT the "obvious" leader of the pack doesnt like me. I feel that way because she never acknowledges me, never says hello, never invites me to anything, never even speaks to me. Whenever the other ladies invites me to any gettogether, I do make an effort to go, and when I get there, she doesnt even speak to me. I do say hello which she answers to, but thats about it. BTW, we are all friends of FB so I do get notifications of some of the things that they all do together, which I never got invited to.
Anyway, heres the reason behind this post. The "pack leader" (lol) started working out and got a few of the other ladies to join her. They all work out at the same gym, at the same time and with the same personal trainer. She never asked me to join, although if she had asked, I would have obliged because I do need to lose a few pounds. Anyone, I ran into one of the other girls today at the mall and she asked me if the "pack leader" had invited me to join because they all work out together now. I said no and I had no idea about that and if she had invited me, I would have joined. Well, she said I am more than welcome to join them if i wanted to. well heres the thing...I know that the pack leader would not like me there. If she wanted me there, she would have asked me in the first place. But, I am friendly with the rest of the group and I do need some motivation/a gym partner to work out...I could say screw her and join regardless, but it might be unpleasant for me because of her snotty attitude towards me.
So I just need some advice...would you join regardless of this situation or would u pass up on this.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:23 AM on Jan. 31, 2011 in Relationships
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