Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

At what age should your toddler be using a spoon?

Answer Question

Asked by lovemyhamza at 9:18 AM on Jan. 31, 2011 in Toddlers (1-2)

Level 2 (10 Credits)
Answers (5)
  • My 2 1/2 yo uses one but isn't entirely successful with it all the time. She does an okay job. She has been using a fork regularly since she was about 18 mos old and I don't mean a toddler fork a regular one.

    Answer by coala at 9:20 AM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • My son is 17 months and using a spoon. He's not very skilled at it yet, but he needs the practice. He has been using it for several months now. My best advice would be to let them use it when they start reaching for it.

    Answer by mommy_jules at 9:22 AM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • When they are ready - whether that is 1 month or 5 years. There is no should about it. My son was using one from 10 months but that's because he chose to start trying it.

    Children develop different things at different times and in different orders. Holding a spoon might not be priority for some children, while others want to learn and do it.

    Answer by keyaziz at 9:29 AM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • At the age that you teach them to use a spoon. Using utensiles isn't instinctual, so if you haven't taught your child how to use one then they're not going to know. "Teaching" can also be just as simple as them watching you use one as well.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 10:08 AM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • I give them a spoon as soon as they start self-feeding. Usually, they pick up the spoon, then set it down and opt for fingers at first. Around 18 months old, mine have begun using the spoon for about half of their meal. A little after their 2nd birthday, they were more able to use the spoon most of the time.

    Answer by fancyjane at 10:46 AM on Jan. 31, 2011

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.