My SO has had a lack of sex drive for quite a few months now. We do have sex but it's not as often as I would like. We have been together for almost a year and at first it was alot more often (as it always is in the beginning). I think he is down b/c he's out of work but does that mean we can enjoy ourselves? I would think it would make more time and energy for that. When we do it, it's usually because I'm about to burst and I text or ask him if he's up for it that night so I don't feel rejected when I try and he doesnt want to. But I want the spontanity back. I dont want to plan it out. We do get around to it once a week or every other week. Today makes 2 weeks but I texted this morning to end the streak. Once a week is OK but I would prefer twice a week and on occassion three times. Am I asking too much? I even bought a book with a bunch of new positions to try, hoping to spice it up, thinking maybe it's boring to him. I wonder if I'm just not good enough. Has anyone ever heard of practice sex? HAHA.
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