My fiance's mother has lived with us for 2 years. When she moved in she took over the entire house (living room, dining room, kitchen, and even the master bedroom) and she demanded things be her stuff and her way. So then starting back in August when she found out we we're expecting a baby, her attitude towards me began to change. She complained about little things; me cooking dinner, buying groceries, cleaning, spending time with my fiance, etc. She would come home and tell him 'her' house wasn't clean and things like that. So she finally couldn't control it anymore and exploded on me one nite calling me the b-word and a hoe numerous times and since then its been tension in the house. I ignore her and stayed in my bedroom, she still spoke ill of me to her family and my fiance, but I just ignored her. Finally she came home one day and started an argument with him because we didn't speak to her. She told him she was not moving out (as she had told us since last year) and we could not have the master bedroom back. We could leave and she would take over the mortgage but she refused to leave. He refused they argued, she threatened him and the arguing continued for two days. She took all her things, dishes, trashcans, brooms, food, and put it in her bedroom (?) and then called the cops because she banged on our bedroom door and we wouldn't let her in. Now his mother is finally leaving because the cops told her to and he acting sad. She put him through hell he even was prepared to walk 7 miles to work in the rain because she threatened to call the cops on him. I'm disgusted because all he says is he wants her to leave now shes leaving and he's sulking. He hasn't even said anything to me, in my guess because she's using the guilt trip. I just don't understand. We all have moms, I have one whose done me wrong but this woman is insane.
Answer by Vlex at 5:38 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by Ati_13 at 5:26 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
That is YOUR home, not hers. Calling you names is ridiculous. Mother or not she would have had to hit the road long ago. I can understand feeling guilty but come ON! She is in YOUR house. If I were you, she would NOT have taken over, period. She is the guest and she should act like one.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 5:37 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by samurai_chica at 5:38 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
The woman really needs some serious counseling.....I'm sorry your going through this. She is either sick or a very selfish woman. GL hon.
Answer by zbee at 5:43 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by lillyblue111 at 6:05 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
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