Hi ladies !
My bf of 3 months now, said his best friend is his buddy's wife.
They "agree in everything but politics".
Our relationship is a long distance one, and feel kind of left out, cause the 3 of them (the couple and my guy) go on long bike trips etc.
Another day he said the 3 of them went to a Beer Marathon and the 2 men got so drunk that the lady had to carry them, put them in the car and take them home.
I visited my man last week, and he asked to borrow her bike, so that him and I can go for a ride. For a week she was aloof, and the day I was leaving she texted him "Come and take the bike".
Also, we went to her birthday party and my man called her "the star" all the time.
On my birthday showed emotions, but not the "star" admiration he showed to her.
We're so far apart and I guess I'm jealous cause we don't have the opportunity to do things they can do.
HOW SHOULD I HANDLE THIS?
Please share your views and advise !
Asked by Anonymous at 5:31 PM on Jan. 31, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by samurai_chica at 5:33 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by MamaWolf1981 at 5:33 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by dullscissors at 5:34 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
I really would calmly discuss this with him, if your not comfortable doing that I think you need to re-evaluate your relationship. GL
Answer by zbee at 5:36 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by samurai_chica at 5:43 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
What I was wondering is what would happen if you guys didn't live so far away? What would happen if you always felt like your being pushed to the side and instead it was in your face? Come first, or not at all. I would definitely have a sit down conversation with him and tell him exactly what you just said here. He can't fix what he doesn't know about.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 5:44 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by mommy161617 at 6:17 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by huntin_mama at 7:41 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by rio_burb at 3:55 PM on Feb. 1, 2011
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 4:58 PM on Feb. 1, 2011