Her grandmother has been a very negative influence in her life. Now that she is getting older she is starting to realize that she does not want to have anything to do with her (my mother). She is close to her paternal grandmother, as she makes time for her grandkids and is involved in all of her grandkids lives. My mom has 9 (soon to be 10) grandchildren and 8 (soon to be 9) live in the same city as her. She has no time for ANY of them and when she does make time she only beings up stuff they don't really care for. All of the older ones fell the same way. My SIL is making her oldest (both 13) spend time with her even though they really don't want to. I told my 9yo it is up to her, if she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to. Is that ok?
Answer by Freela at 8:48 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by MLM0503 at 8:15 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
Answer by AshJoe05 at 7:54 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
I would agree it's OK as kids me and my sister spent time with our grandmother the older we got my sister spent more time with her. They enjoyed doing things together . Not to say she preferred her over me I just don't spend time with her . So if your daughter doesn't want to then don't force it . good luck
Answer by waitin4u at 8:13 PM on Jan. 31, 2011
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