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My hubby snoops around on my FB and yahoo.

I have been faithful and we have 2 great girls and another one the way. Should I take this as him just being curious, or should I start thinking about counseling?

 
summerbear

Asked by summerbear at 7:52 PM on Jan. 31, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • I find that if someone is snooping they have trust issues. You may want to ask him what is going on and have a conversation about trust. when my exhusband and I were married we respected each others space. We had our own passwords and I shut down my computer or at least locked it password wise because I didn't feel comfy sharing my friends stuff! Some things are just confidential ya know!
    Shaneagle777

    Answer by Shaneagle777 at 7:59 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • My ex started doing those things and I found out later it was because HE was guilty. He had a guilty consciounce -- but in the meantime, it DROVE me crazy with all the snooping! I used to get SO tired of feeling as though I had to PROVE my innocence!
    BaileysMom476

    Answer by BaileysMom476 at 7:55 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • hmmm.... sometimes that kind of snooping can come from a gulity conscience. or it could be low self esteem. I would talk with him about it.
    elffyefli

    Answer by elffyefli at 7:56 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • Everyone gets curious at one time or another. I would talk to him about it and tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable when he does this. Have the talk, then if he continues, mention counseling. Good luck
    hazeleyezmommy

    Answer by hazeleyezmommy at 7:58 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • I would talk to him about it first.
    dancinintherain

    Answer by dancinintherain at 7:59 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • Change your password! Lol
    MLM0503

    Answer by MLM0503 at 8:12 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • take it to another level...
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 8:35 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • I would ask him why he feels the need to look through your things.
    JLS2388

    Answer by JLS2388 at 8:41 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • Have you asked him what's up?
    marine_wife0520

    Answer by marine_wife0520 at 9:00 PM on Jan. 31, 2011