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Anyone here get pregnant behind their SO's back on purpose?

I know you arent all angels...


Asked by Anonymous at 10:58 PM on Jan. 31, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • I am certainly no angel, lol.  I totally tricked my hub into giving me a girl.  Before I had my first born he told me that secretly he wanted us to have a little girl.  The whole "daddys girl" thing.  When I ended up getting pregnant, I found out that I was having a boy.  We were both still extremely happy and my hub got to do the "jr" thing, lol.  After watching me have our son my hub got freaked out and couldn't figure out why I'd want to go through something so painful again.  He bought condoms.  I seduced my own husband ladies, lol.  Seriously.  I'd wake him up in the morning for the "morning sessions" and conveniently "forget" the condom.  He was happy though.  Now we are on number 4, lol.


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 11:07 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • Wow, that's not just punishing your SO, it's punishing your future baby as well!

    Answer by Adelicious at 10:59 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • That would be pretty dumb. Having a baby you already know your SO doesn't want. I mean I'm sure it's hard enough finding out he doesn't want if after you already are pregnant. Why would anyone purposely put themself in that situation?

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:05 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • no, I think that´s awful, I´d never do that. (No, I´m no angel, I just wouldn´t do THAT)...

    Answer by Belovedmoonpixi at 11:10 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • nope. this pregnancy was an oops, for the both of us. although secretly, i think HE wanted a baby n didnt say anything.

    Answer by youngmami07 at 10:59 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • Wait, when you say "behind his back" you're talking about getting pregnant by someone else, right?? I mean, the only place I ever got pregnant was in FRONT of my DH. LOL!

    Answer by Adelicious at 11:00 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • Me and my fiance' both agree to start trying once we get married, I don't know what I would do if he didn't want to

    Answer by JLS2388 at 11:38 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • Lol, no I mean when he says no babies and you plan it out and get knocked up anyway and claim it as an oops

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:04 PM on Jan. 31, 2011

  • No - I found out my husband's stance on having kids before we got into a serious dating relationship. I wouldn't have started getting serious with someone who wasn't on the same page as me about having kids.

    Answer by missanc at 10:42 AM on Feb. 1, 2011

  • And in my own defense, my hub current "plan" on birth control is "being careful".  He wants as many as he can have, he just doesn't show it because he's a "manly man", ha ha!


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 11:08 PM on Jan. 31, 2011