My husband has been lying about things lately. He is buying things without talking about it first, lying about when he gets off work. What is going on? He says he doesn't want to tell me somethings because he is afraid I'll get mad, how did I become the bad person. I'm always honest, always tell him what I buy. If he's ok lying about little things, what's next?? And what is going on with him??
Asked by Anonymous at 8:12 PM on Feb. 1, 2011 in Relationships
I am sorry it sounds as if your in a mess. The way I understand this is your husband knows and is aware of this issue. He said he knows(( you)) would get mad. The easiest way to take the focus off is to say "you". Take back the him and yous. Keep it on me and I's. The truth is 7 years is a long time. If he is not sharing it has nothing to do with you getting mad. Try not to look for cheating and all negatives. You know this man and we do not. I always hope for the best. This has saved me a lot of pain. My imagination is scary! Good luck honey. Troubles come and troubles go.
Answer by rosetoes at 2:32 PM on Feb. 2, 2011
Dig a little deeper is this something he just recently started doing or is this the regular for him?
Answer by ExtremlyUnique at 8:19 PM on Feb. 1, 2011
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