I have been talking to this guy I work with for 3 weeks. We both want to take things slow. He is talking to other girls (some online, some in person in the area..I being one of them in person). He says he wants a relationship but, wants to take things slow b.c he has some things comming up he needs to deal with in his life. Then, he will say he wants a relationship but, not right now b.c he doesnt want to mess up the next one he gets himself into. We have been talking 3 weeks. slept together once. We both have children. We both have been divorced.
Sometimes, talking to him is like hitting a BRICK wall, full force. Pretty much his "answer" to the majority of my questions is "I want to go day by day. See what happens."
What the hell is the real deal?
I feel like I am complicating things b.c I want soooo bad to be with him, BUT, I also want to badly slow down and take things daily.
We have both been hurt in the past by emotionally abusive individuals.
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