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im 20 weeks and i still havent felt her kick hard??anyone can relate?

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Asked by lakendrawalker at 10:50 PM on Feb. 1, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • that's still relatively early so dont worry too much about it. everyone grows differently

    Answer by Mrs.L.Mita at 10:52 PM on Feb. 1, 2011

  • I didn't really feel "flutters" until I was about 22 weeks or so. Like pp said everyone grows differently.

    Answer by sweetpea1217 at 10:54 PM on Feb. 1, 2011

  • i only felt my son kick one time my whole pgncy at around 6 months

    Answer by letstalk747 at 10:55 PM on Feb. 1, 2011

  • Harder the kick might be more when the baby is running out of room later on in the pregnancy. 22 wks is usually average for when people start to feel slight kicks...others don't feel kicks because the baby may be more aimed towards the back (back not fun) don't worry too least you're feeling some activity. The further you are in the pregnancy, you will have good days and bad days as far as kicks go...kick counts help if you are worried, but it's normal. Enjoy your time being pregnant lol. G'luck with the rest of the pregnancy.

    Answer by Imortlmommy at 10:56 PM on Feb. 1, 2011

  • i think everything is okay but talk to your dr thats still kind of early

    Answer by noelliekodasmum at 11:20 PM on Feb. 1, 2011

  • I didn't feel my first baby kick until 26 weeks.

    With my second baby I felt him at 15 weeks. Everyone and every babyt is different.

    Give it a couple more weeks.

    Answer by miasmommy21407 at 12:17 AM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • YES! I felt my daughter at 20 weeks and with this one I didn't feel anything until 22 weeks. I'm at 24 weeks now and can usually feel a few hard ones a couple times a day. I understand how hard it is when each day comes and you don't feel anything. Hang in there.

    Answer by moviemom22 at 11:40 AM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • I am 19 weeks pregnant and I have been worried about the same thing. Everyone told me that its normal and everyone is different.

    Answer by annabelle092810 at 12:01 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • everybody is different

    Answer by x3.babymama.x3 at 12:29 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • Yep. It can have alot to do with the position of your placenta. I didnt feel my first until I was almost 6 months. My other three I felt between 10 and 14 weeks. With this pregnancy I didnt feel the baby til 21 weeks.

    Answer by elffyefli at 10:14 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

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