my husband doesnt apperciate anything i do. he thinks i just sleep in everyday and spend all my time doing nothing. im a stay at home mom and he is in the military. i cant help he does military stuff while im at home he acts as if there is no work to be done in a two story house. HOW CAN I GET HIM TO BE MORE APPECIATIVE?!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:29 AM on Feb. 2, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by JawgaMom1 at 10:03 AM on Feb. 2, 2011
Answer by ExtremlyUnique at 12:31 AM on Feb. 2, 2011
Stop doing "shit" won't really work if he's in the military...he can't see what she's doing or not doing. Either way most working men have this Bullshit notion that SAHM AND WAHM do nothing but sit on the couch eating bon-bons and watching soaps...Ala Peggy Bundy!
We all know that this is a BIG Misconception!
But what you could do is make a list of all the things that you do Do..no matter how trivial it really is...anytime you are contributing to your household.
1. Putting away someone elses crap
3. Taking kids anywhere
4. Organizing grocery lists, bills et cet
5. Mediating fights, talking with teachers...
By now, I'm sure you get my drift.
Show this to him or read it...than see what he says, if he STILL thinks that you do nothing!
Hope this Helps and Good Luck Sweetie...I appreciate you!
Answer by Missikat75 at 1:12 AM on Feb. 2, 2011
Answer by mommy_jules at 12:32 AM on Feb. 2, 2011
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