This guy finds me in FB after about 25 years. I was 13 the last time I saw him. Had a huge crush at the time on him. He had to remind me who he was, we only knew each other about 6 months.
Had a nice catch up conversation and said I could probably talk more later, but I never did. He sent a couple well wishes, but I never responded.
He mentioned how he felt bad in all that time for some insult he made to me back then and wanted to apologize, that he never really meant it (it was to save face in front of his friend at the time) and that he actually thought I was cute too. Even tho it had been so long, it still bothered him. Apparently apologizing to me over it filled some closure for him.
Anyways he seems to be a SAHD of special needs kids, very bored and lonely during the day and seems desperate to find friends, even old ones to be all conversational with.. even tho its been 2 decades. We really barely know each other anymore. He's on my friends list, but I dunno what to say to him.
Am I being wierd about this?
EDIT: Just to be clear, we're both married with families, He's not hitting on me, it was just a nice conversation and he mentioned it. He's not looking to hook up or something like that. He was just clearly pleased to see a familiar old face and seemed more into having someone to talk to than anything else. I just don't feel I know him anymore, he was 14 back then, now we're 40....
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