Hi there ladies...
My grandfather (in another state 10 hours away) is not doing very well and has to be moved into a special nursing home for Alzheimer's. He is being moved from a hospital into the home sometime this week. I am assuming lots of family will go an visit him right away but the visits will drop off quickly (the home is kinda far from where they all live).
The decision is taking a toll on my grandmother too. I want to go and see them both very much. Due to other influences I am unable to go without my mother (or someone) with me. My mother is up there now, and plans on going back for his birthday on Feb 15th.
Here is my dilemma:
1. We are trying to conceive and this weekend is our first window. My husband wants us to not miss this window and I really agree... Plus I can go for his birthday in two weeks :) Also, right now he might be overwhelmed with visitors and so maybe it would help him if I wait a few weeks until people stop going en mass.
2. We are newlyweds and this will be our first Valentine's Day together. I feel like it's not that important and we can celebrate a different day. Hubby agreed and we decided this was the right time for me to go visit. He can't take time off of work though so we wouldn't be together. A couple of people told me I am going to regret this.
So.. please cast your vote:
1 Go now and miss our chance to conceive this month
2 Go for Valentine's Day and miss our first VDay
Asked by Anonymous at 10:41 AM on Feb. 2, 2011 in Relationships
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