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what do u think?

my boss just asked me if i like being married .....my husband says he is making a advance at me

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:44 PM on Feb. 2, 2011 in Money & Work

Answers (10)
  • It depends on how he asked it. Maybe he doesn't, or is thinking of popping the question to his SO.
    SWasson

    Answer by SWasson at 4:45 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • I would say it all would have to do with how he asked it
    Lyndsey250

    Answer by Lyndsey250 at 4:46 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • Sounds like he might be interested in you....question is, how will you procede?
    cerealmom2

    Answer by cerealmom2 at 4:46 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • Let me add, if you think it was a pass, and it makes you uncomfortable in your job because he asked, you need to report it to HR.
    SWasson

    Answer by SWasson at 4:47 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • Report him to HR. If there is not an HR person, file a claim:    http://www.eeoc.gov/

    rkoloms

    Answer by rkoloms at 4:48 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • I agree it depends on how he asked it. I'm asked that all the time.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 4:51 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • he has a wife and kids and honestly i told him i love married wouldn't change anything, if he means anything by it i will quit
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 4:51 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • I think it depends on the context. I hope it wasn't anything more than small talk..
    Erica_Smerica

    Answer by Erica_Smerica at 7:20 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • It really depends on how that question came up. If its bothering you than its a problem...
    angelkcm2

    Answer by angelkcm2 at 9:46 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • Maybe he's unhappy at home and wanted a woman's opinion.
    HotMama330

    Answer by HotMama330 at 11:56 AM on Feb. 3, 2011

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