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sometime I think ppl on here

dont always say what they really feel. I think on some questions ppl just want to say what they think is the " right" thing to say. ex when it comes to someone giving a child a spankin out of 20 responses only two would admit they do it. I dont believe that. I mean I know so ppl dont but forreal I can't be the only person that would pop my child for being hard headed sometimes.
And when it comes to gender things nobody seems to mind if their little boy dresses like a girl (just saying) its just let him be happy. Hell no that wont fly in my house. again I know some ppl dont mind. but I can't be the only one. My point is sometimes I dont feel like ppl are keeping 100. Maybe i'm just too old school.

my thing is if you really feel like that cool. i'm not judging however sometimes I feel alone like i can't be the only one who thinks like this on these issues.

 
Sky_Mom

Asked by Sky_Mom at 6:02 PM on Feb. 2, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • U know everybody not gon tell the truth! Ask the question anyway...and u can tell which ones are serious or true!
    QueenAdeela

    Answer by QueenAdeela at 6:36 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • I agree
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:04 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • agreed.
    laura970

    Answer by laura970 at 6:09 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • And another is if a woman comes to vent about her dh and ask can you relate everybody is like oh no not my dh he is great he would never. my dh is perfect. i'm like forreal .

    I DO have a wonderful husband and I don't have to lie about our marriage. Just because some women made a crappy choice when they picked their husband doesn't mean EVERYONE did. Besides, even when my husband ticks me off, I don't go broadcasting it all over the place, not to my friends, family and especially not to strangers on the internet. Whatever problems we might have are between US and not everyone else. I think it's disrespectful and inconsiderate. I often wonder how many of these same women would feel if they found out their husband was blabbing about them and their imperfections and their disagreements to everyone!!
    Bethsunshine

    Answer by Bethsunshine at 6:19 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • I think some people avoid some of the questions because of the nasty comments they get in response or even the nasty grams they receive by private messages.
    I know if I can't bring myself to word something nicely, I'll skip it rather than be mean. Although sometimes I get those nastygrams anyway.
    layh41407

    Answer by layh41407 at 6:32 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • And another is if a woman comes to vent about her dh and ask can you relate everybody is like oh no not my dh he is great he would never. my dh is perfect. i'm like forreal .
    Sky_Mom

    Comment by Sky_Mom (original poster) at 6:11 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • I think some are that way, maybe if they are unsure of whats acceptable. I usually tell what I think and how I do things. My life doesnt end or begin here on Cafemom. I dont spank my kids. My husband is great (but I went through real losers to get a good man), and I would totally mind if my son dressed like a girl. (Just for the record lol)
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 6:14 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • My hubby is great also but he aint perfect and i would never act like so stuck up. sometimes ppl just act like they shit dont stank. when it come to thier marriage. Again i'm good in mine but would never make someone else feel like an outcast because they are going through and i can't understand because my dh is mister perfect.
    Sky_Mom

    Comment by Sky_Mom (original poster) at 6:21 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • I understand your point of view cause I would be hot. lol
    Sky_Mom

    Comment by Sky_Mom (original poster) at 6:23 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

  • CafeMom is meant to be fun...not so contradictional. We are able to express whatever we want-how we want...crappy hubby or superman...bad kids or geniuses...Have Fun!
    QueenAdeela

    Answer by QueenAdeela at 6:38 PM on Feb. 2, 2011

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