My s/o and I have been together for almost five months. He knows I love him, I told him this past weekend, though he did not say it back I didn't expect him to and he didn't bolt. Sometimes I think he may love me, but not at all sure. He seems to stick it out with me, we have had two disagreements, one being stupid on my part and he acts like nothing was said and continues on with me. I told him I love him, he didn't bolt and is still around. So I am thinking this is a good sign and wondering if I am right?? I know he has been really burned. One being he ex abandoned his children and him came back several years later a took their children back through the courts. Another, a girl used him to the point of being engaged to get her ex boyfriend back, when she got the ex back she took off and left him. So I am figuring he is having a hard time trusting anyone. He words to me when we talked after I told him I loved him was "I have spent the past 15 years getting attached and then it all seems to vansish," then he held me tight for the longest time. He gets wishy washy with stuff and it can even be the point of us making plans, and it isn't just with me it is with everyone.
Sometimes I really just don't know what to think.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:23 AM on Feb. 3, 2011 in Relationships
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