he always has an excuse and says I don't need help. You put your self in that position-being I moved out with the kids.
Yet, he does not understand how I feel, how hurt I was, how unhappy I was, how hurt the kids are, because he don't listen to anyone-he really don't acknowledge how they feel or I feel. He don't help with anything, yet I work too.
I am in therapy, and will continue but I finally realized:
There will never be a him and I. It hurts!!!!!!
I need tips on moving on and focusing on myself and the kids..... Time to stop taking care of a man-grown man that is and take care of me and of course my kids, even thought it is lonely.........
Answer by Bird16_J at 12:00 PM on Feb. 3, 2011
Answer by mom2mybabes at 12:12 PM on Feb. 3, 2011