ok so me and my bf got into a huge fight and i blew it up when all i had to do was tell him what was wrong. But he wouldnt listen to me when i tried so instead os being mature i acted like a baby about it!! I feel awful about the whole situatuion but at the same time, he was wrong and he hurt my feelings so i wanted him to know that! But we were both actin immature so. but now we talked and have made things better but we are still healing after the fight. BUT now he wants to push our marriage plans back a couple of years!!!!!!!! i think its ridicoulus but he said we will see how things go. and i guess i can understand hes hurt but i dnt think one fight should push back marriage plans...what do you think ladies?
He said he was rly excited about getting married until i showed that side of myself! but it never comes out!!!! I know he was excited cuz he told his mom even thought we agreed to keep it a secret until afterwards. I feel like such a bitch!!!!!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 2:23 PM on Feb. 3, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by meandrphoto at 2:42 PM on Feb. 3, 2011
I have no knowledge of either of you, your relationship, or your situation other than what you have shared in this question. I will base my thoughts on this answer and this answer alone.
It could be possible.That this fight didn't just show him a side of you that he didn't really know or had experienced yet. It could have also showed him issues in the relationship that should be addressed and rectified before marriage takes place. Especially in the area of communication. IF this is what he is thinking I applaud him actually. Recognizing issues in a relationship and working them out before marriage is a good thing.Especially if the issue is communication. Saying "I do" does not magically make these types of issues better or make them go away. It actually can make them worse. Working out issues in communication is better done before marriage.
Answer by pixie_trix at 2:34 PM on Feb. 3, 2011
Answer by nickellmomof2 at 2:25 PM on Feb. 3, 2011
Answer by parajumper3 at 2:26 PM on Feb. 3, 2011
Answer by ohwrite at 2:28 PM on Feb. 3, 2011
Answer by gwen20 at 2:30 PM on Feb. 3, 2011
Check out some of the top posts today in Groups: