My DH works out of town home one wk gone 2, I have a full time job 4 kids under 10 and my 20 yr old step son living at home. We are living above our means but we cant move out until August due to lease. DH is always complaining about the way I spend money, and it is always my fault we dont have anything in savings. He has his OWN account that his paychecks go into and I have my OWN savings account that mine go into. Well I make about 750 every 2 weeks and he makes about 2000 every 2 weeks. He wants me to pay some bills,get groceries, gas, extras all on my check plus put some into savings all out of my checks. Then he will pay the rest of the bills. Well he is saying I spend way to much money on groceries .........hello 7 people and we live in a small town there is only 2 grocery stores....and it is not a WINCO or anything close ( a pack of butter here is $4) He thinks I only need to spend 100 a week on groceries. He says I dont love him or want to be with him because we have no money saved for us to be able to move to where he is.
This probably makes no sense but I am so confused all we have done for months is fight about money and it is killing me!
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