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would u question your mom's morals (not openly but in your mind) if she had kids with multiple fathers ?

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gwen20

Asked by gwen20 at 5:29 PM on Feb. 3, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • If there are more than 2 dad's then yes. I would.
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 5:41 PM on Feb. 3, 2011

  • I think it depends on the situation. I have kids with 3 different men. My first I was young and stupid. The relationship didn't last after I had my dd. Then I married a couple of years later and had 2 kids. He walked out on us after 13 years of marriage. Then I remarried and we started a family together. We've been married for over 6 years. My past isn't perfect but it doesn't mean I'm lacking morals.
    MrsMWF

    Answer by MrsMWF at 5:46 PM on Feb. 3, 2011

  • Nope my mom was married three different times and has myself and two sisters. She was married it wasn't like a one night stand. Same with me. All my kids were born while I was married. I am now on my second divorce (ex hubby cheated on me multiple times so out on his ass he went lol) and my bf and I have talked about having a couple of kids of our own one day as well.
    Bird16_J

    Answer by Bird16_J at 6:06 PM on Feb. 3, 2011

  • No. I have kids by multiple fathers. Why should women only have their morals questioned? What about these guys who are spreading their seed and making babies with numerous mothers? I never understood the double standard.
    Izsarejman

    Answer by Izsarejman at 6:23 PM on Feb. 3, 2011

  • How many are we talking here? More then 2?
    yes,I would. My mom knows a woman who has 13 kids by 10 guys.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:31 PM on Feb. 3, 2011

  • Yes, probably so. I can understand 2 and 3 is a stretch, but beyond that is just too many imo.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 5:33 PM on Feb. 3, 2011

  • I think if a kid grows up in that situation, that's going to be 'the norm' for them, and probably wouldn't think to question it until they were practically adults themselves. Lots of families have kids from different fathers, be it step-families or from relationships that didn't work out or whatever. I don't think it is as big of a big deal these days as it was 20 years ago or more.
    hippomom1919

    Answer by hippomom1919 at 5:34 PM on Feb. 3, 2011

  • More than 2 and yes I would.
    zebbiebug

    Answer by zebbiebug at 5:35 PM on Feb. 3, 2011

  • then not and
    zebbiebug

    Answer by zebbiebug at 5:36 PM on Feb. 3, 2011

  • No because you do not always know the circumstances.
    mslksdh

    Answer by mslksdh at 5:43 PM on Feb. 3, 2011