My bf is black and i'm a white, blond haired girl. We look so good together but so many people bring us down for it? Black girls especially! He's a great looking guy and they lovvve seeing him but when we're together I hear all the time "why dont you stay with your own kind" "wow he's with a white girl" "look at that white girl" ETC. Seriously chill out people!!! So ignorant!!! I really dont want to stay with him if this is how its always going to be! Its sad bc THEY are pushing us away. :( What should I do? & Has anyone else been thru this?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:38 AM on Feb. 4, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by June_Mama09 at 8:17 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
Answer by Bears.Mommy at 1:45 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 1:48 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
Lord knows people are haters by nature. Pay no attention to those comments if they are not about one thing it is another. It is sort of when you get a new blue car everyone seems to have blue cars, ya know? Color will soon be a thing of the past.....it's coming. Racism will be extinct some day. Promise.
Answer by rosetoes at 1:54 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
Answer by Raine2001 at 8:12 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
Answer by tootoobusy at 8:16 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
I think it's something that happens in every race/ethnicity. I am white, my husband is Hispanic. When we lived in Miami (predominantly Hispanic), I would get dirty looks and nasty comments from the Hispanic community; but more so the women. When we would visit Tampa (predominantly white), he said he would get dirty looks from white people, mostly men.
Answer by banana-bear at 8:24 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
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