the story is: i recently found out my husband cheated on me during both of my pregnancies with our children. our youngest is a little over one and he says he hasnt done anything since that pregnancy. he came clean and told me everything, said he was sorry and wants to fix it. well i was extremely hurt and betrayed, and leaned on this guy that i knew was into me. we started texting eachother and the texts became a little inappropriate. we planned to make it physical but all of the sudden today i just feel so wrong about it. i know what i did was immature, i was mostly doing it out of hurt and anger, and i stooped as low as my husband. he actually did have sex with the girls though, and yes there was more than one, and two of them were married too! i know sleeping with another guy is just as wrong. i dont want to be a piss poor example for our children and thats exactly what ive done. plus my husband is being really nice and understanding through it all. i want to work on our marriage so i know i need to drop the other guy immediately. should i come clean though too and tell him about my own infidelity? or just drop the guy completely and not mention it to him since the affair was only emotional? i feel so horrible so please dont bash. i know i am a disgusting person!
Asked by Anonymous at 10:38 AM on Feb. 4, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by June_Mama09 at 10:42 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
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Answer by CraftingMama at 10:40 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
If it's making you feel bad, stop doing it, that's your conscience.
Answer by scout_mom at 10:42 AM on Feb. 4, 2011
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Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:58 AM on Feb. 4, 2011