My SO and i had a fight about a week ago. and we have been taking slow steps to reconnect. Which is fine with me.
But his birthday is coming up and we were supposed to take a trip to Cancun, but with the fight we decided that we should post pone it. So he has been saying that he wanted to go to new york, and stay the weekend and go shopping. I am fine with that.
So then he says, "Yeah i was gonna ask you if you wanted to go with" my excitement became short lived because in the same breath he said "if i don't go with my friends" I felt like i had been slapped in the face. Why offer me to go with you, only as a second choice? I know we fought and have been taking things slow, but what the hell!!! I feel like he wants to make an effort toward working things out, and then he goes back to being an ass!!
How should i proceed? I'm confused.
Answer by BabyBugsmama at 1:56 PM on Feb. 4, 2011
Answer by Bird16_J at 11:23 AM on Feb. 4, 2011