M husband and I have to young children and we are 22&24, we were married when I was 19 (I'm younger). Were rounding the corner at 5 yrs together and about married. Times have been really difficult, constantly immature fights about who does more, I won't stop if you won't, ect.. I'm honestly feeling one. I'm don't want t be in a broken marriage but I also don't want to har my kids and have them go through the hardship of divorce. I can be mean, I know I'm a fault. However, he tells me I'm an f-ing idiot, dumb b$&@?, ect... Sometimes in front of our girls. I came from a childhood where my mother was treated lik thi andit breaks my heart to be in a relationship I hate so much. I wan to make things work but don't know how. I feel like I'm at th end of my rope. Is every year just going to get worse and worse? Will we mature nd grow together or is there no hope. I'm lost.
I pray about change within me and him, but don't see any change. I trust in god but don't know when I shol just giv up because it's not healthy
Asked by Anonymous at 12:38 PM on Feb. 4, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by JCRestoredme at 1:06 PM on Feb. 4, 2011
Marriage is very important to me and something I would work very hard to save, but the hateful language is something I would never tolerate. The younger the kids are when their parents divorce the easier it is for them. Only you can decide if there is love anywhere in this relationship to start working on.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 1:09 PM on Feb. 4, 2011
Go to counseling in the mean time try the Love Dare. http://www.shenzhoufellowship.org/main2/files/old/SpecialTopics/TheLoveDare.pdf
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