So my husband and I have been seperated a short time. Yesterday I emailed him, since he won't "discuss" things with me. I told him how I felt, that I think we should go to marriage counseling and work this out. We have 2 wonderful children together and this isn't what I wanted for them. He of couse did some things, that he isn't even being honest about ... I'm not sure if he was going to strip cubs, gambeling or what. There were huge chunks of money gone from our acct for a 6 week period, pulled form ATMS. There were large amts spent at bars, I'm talking $100-$200 at a time. He moved for a job and we had to stay behind until our lease was up, plus give him time to find a place for us to live, he was living with friends of ours there. Anyways, the only time he contacts me is via TXT to ask about financial things...when are you switching your phone to your own acct, when are you sending the W2s, when are you taking yourself off the bank acct.... To which all of that I said I'm not taking myself off of anything until I get my share of the tax return and he pay some of the utility bills from here. He shouldn't have spent a couple thousand dollars having a good time when he had a family to providing for.
So yesterday he tells me he doesn't care to read my skewed or toxic information right now, for it's not high on his bull shit priority. But at the same time, for weeks he has been quoting all these sad and woah is me lines, quote, and lyrics on his FB page. We were equally giving one another "time" and "space" although I think after 3 weeks it's been enough time.
I just don't get it. My grandma said he is just pulling my emotional strings at this point. I guess I have done all I can done, telling him how I felt and what I wanted out of it. But how long do you continue to wait for him to decide what he wants? I'm not going to bother him with another msg. Or nag him. I just am at a loss. He makes me confused with his bi-polar like emotional state.
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