I found out 3 1/2 years ago (when I was pregnant with my son) that my husband would poke holes in the condoms when we had sex. I got pregnant and we then got married I was only 19 and this was with my DD. He told me while I was prenant with our son. THIS is the way he said it
"He said I wanted to marry you so bad and I knew you didnt want to get married so I poked holes in the condoms so you would get pregnant and marry me."
I never wanted to have kids he knew this I never thought he would be this horrid. I know I know I had sex with him but I was 18 and thought I was being safe using protection UGH I just cant get over it, I hate him I look at him and it makes me so mad I feel like he stole my whole life away from me. I had HUGE plans. DOnt get me wrong I love my kids but now im just so depressed.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:20 PM on Feb. 4, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Orionsgirl at 7:22 PM on Feb. 4, 2011
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Answer by Scuba at 7:24 PM on Feb. 4, 2011
You can still have a great life with great plans. You will have to work harder to achieve your dreams and juggle your family. You can do it!! I am going back to school and my son is the greatest in the world. Try to look at the bright side of this. You have wonderful kids. Try to work it out with your hubby and if you do not want any more children have him neutered!!! It is the least he could do for you and put this in the past and never bring it up again. Hugs to you!!
Answer by jen2774161 at 7:25 PM on Feb. 4, 2011
31/2 years? Yeah, I would move on. The trust has been completely broken. It doesn't mean that you can't still have the life that you want but it's the fact that you had no choice in your own life. That's bs. I would be totally pissed if I were in this situation.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 7:27 PM on Feb. 4, 2011
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Answer by mommaclow at 7:28 PM on Feb. 4, 2011