I left my husband the beging of the summer, our baby was 3 months old, and money was tight, he was being a huge ass, making threats to me, calling me names infront of our 4 year old....pretty much had NO respect for me what so ever, it all flared up with the baby was born, I wasnt working and we could make it by, but he started drinking alot of beer, which is very expensive.
so I have been gone for 5 months ish, it seems he has made an effort he is seeing a councler and "says" he has quite drinking. he says he has relized his mistake, you know the song and dance.
we talk on the phone as friends and i listen to him carefully to what he says, i would think if he did make some type of change, his attitude would change, how he talks about people, yada yada yada, i would be able to tell.
well now im to a point where i could see this working, but not really sure where to go from here, his councler has invited me to go along to one of his sessions. i guess that would be the start? maybe a dinner date?
and then to add on top of it all, im staying at my parents, which of cource have reservaions about him now, i cant blame them. if we did end up having to get back together he would have to work on the relationship he has with my parents as well....ugh i know this is alot, and its very late, soooo im not sure if this all makes sense....
1.give hubby a chance?
2.how can he fix relationship with my rents....
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