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Is it normal for daddys-to-be to freak out when they find out your pregnant?

He suggested moving in with his dad. Then he suggested adoption. Then soetimes he seems ok.

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Dragonfly_95

Asked by Dragonfly_95 at 1:22 AM on Feb. 5, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • Totally normal!! Mine did the same thing... and now he is all about it he talks to them all the time, and there not even born yet so give it some time, and talk to him to find out what he really wants to do.
    Chole06302010

    Answer by Chole06302010 at 1:30 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • If they're not trying to get pregnant then yes they will freak. But if yall have been trying to conceive, then no. Mine didn't because we were trying for 8 months before I got pregnant.
    skitNbearsmom

    Answer by skitNbearsmom at 1:30 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • All dads-to-be get nervous. Mostly at the finacial side of it.
    SweetLoveofMine

    Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 1:31 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • With us it was just the opposite. I was freaking out (it was an unplanned pregnancy), and he was much more cool about it. He said everything would work out, and he was right! (Though that's due in a large part to him. He's a good dad/provider, I just didn't know it at the time lol.)
    catharsis

    Answer by catharsis at 2:43 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • It can be normal. Try to be patient with him. He may not come around until he is holding an infant. Some guys handle pregnancy better than others. I hope everything pans out okay! :)
    musicpisces

    Answer by musicpisces at 3:27 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • lol yes
    san78

    Answer by san78 at 6:56 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

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