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to tell or not to tell?

My best friend found out she was prego dec 31st her boy friend keeps telling us hes leaving but then says shes the lite of his life. the last time he poled this i told her and everyone in my house hold herd him. yet he "changed his mind. know hes doing it all over again hes been planning this for over 6 months what should i do

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:23 AM on Feb. 5, 2011 in Pregnancy

Answers (5)
  • tell. He then can decide whether he wants to be part of the kid´s life or not (independently of whether he wants to stay with your friend or not)
    Belovedmoonpixi

    Answer by Belovedmoonpixi at 1:37 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • tell
    wifecombs

    Answer by wifecombs at 1:58 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • do it yes
    san78

    Answer by san78 at 6:56 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • If she wants him to know wouldn't she tell him?
    Punkslilncs

    Answer by Punkslilncs at 10:31 AM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • I would talk to your friend about it. Its her right to know if he's not fully serious about this. Now isn't the time for him to be selfish. There is another life that will be affected.
    kristina.de

    Answer by kristina.de at 2:05 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

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