I'm thinking about seperation and just in case it follows to a divorce i was wondering on which grounds they decide whit whom the children stay with?
My husband is in the military but soon be out.as for now i dont have a job can i be labeled unfit for that reason?my husband already said in case of a divorce he keeps the boys.
i dont think that is any fair since i was the one who raised the first one 10mos by myself because he was deplyed and in general it is me caring for them. He also goes to mental health for different issues(like anger managment, panic attacks) can i bring that up to prove he isnt fit to raise them? i must mention that im absolutely NOT trying to keep him away from his children!
But a major thing would be that i would be moving back to Germany in a case of a divorce(thats why he's so rigorous about keeping them). hate to think about that since my parent's are divorced i really dont want that to happen but in case i want to be sure that they stay with me because i believe he would be overwhelmed (as he is now when i leave him with both of them for a couple of hrs...)
Thanks so much!
Asked by Anonymous at 4:40 PM on Feb. 5, 2011 in Relationships
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