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If your SO gave you the choice of devorce or never seeing your BFF again, what would you do?

Personally, anyone that gives me an ultimatum is out of my life!

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Asked by SabrinaMBowen at 7:18 PM on Feb. 5, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (21)
  • I'd go for the divorce....I don't want to be married to someone that controlling...

    Answer by Anna92464 at 7:20 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • I would divorce his ass. Why? Because apparently he is trying to control my life and I did that once, not going it again.

    Answer by layh41407 at 7:20 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • i actually had a finance who did that once ... obviously we are not to gether lol

    Answer by blinkys11 at 7:20 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • Well, my husband would never do that unless there was really good reason, therefore I'd probably let my BFF go. That is, not including my mom, because she's my very best friend and I'd never agree to not seeing her. The chances of an ultimatum from him like that is like 1 in billion, though. :)

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 7:21 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • I don't have a BFF but my husband would not make me choose.

    Answer by Melbornj at 7:22 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • I guess I'd wonder what isgoing on between the wife and BFF that is pissing the DH off
    Is he a control freak or is the BFF interfering somehow?

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:23 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • Counseling first and see where it goes from there.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 7:24 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • butterfly, it's just a hypothetical... A what if if happened to YOU kind of thing...

    Comment by SabrinaMBowen (original poster) at 7:24 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • like lovingsahmommy depends why. maybe she was into heavy drugs or something and he feels that it isnt a good influence. it depends but if it wasnt for a good reason, i'd have to say divorce, his loss, i guess.

    Answer by americansugar80 at 7:25 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

  • I would tell him that he is not to pick who my friends are.

    Answer by older at 7:25 PM on Feb. 5, 2011

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