I feel terrible... just terrible about this pregnancy. I recently found out a few days ago that im pregnant with twins, I was shocked at first but then I came around cause im going to have twice the love. But i feel awful about what their dad told me tonight. from day one when I told him that im pregnant he wanted me to have an abortion, and I did agree for some time but I changed my mind... God put them there not me. And now that i told him that its twins, he told he as long as i go with the pregnancy, their not going to have a father, it hurt me terribly, like a knife through my neck. He keeps on tellin me that he's not ready, but he has a 2 yr old son so I dont see what the big scare is about, I should be the one pissing my bed right now. Im going back to school and getting the right amount of money I need, its not like he doesnt has a job and he gets paid every 2 weeks...im starting to feel like my babies are not going to get any love from him or wont be loved at all...but i kno i'll love them to death do us part. I just feel like im the only one thats going to love my babies and god. my mom still doesnt know that im pregnant, Im trying to tell her but its hard cause she's sick...both her and my dad. i really dont know how they'll take it cause im the baby of the family. ladies what should i do?Answer Question
Answer by dragonqueen at 2:36 AM on Feb. 6, 2011
Answer by gou18 at 2:43 AM on Feb. 6, 2011
Answer by BigMomm4 at 2:48 AM on Feb. 6, 2011
I do know u have to get that sperm donor out of your life and knowing u can take care of those babies and raise them right, and you better support system then donor would ever give u. I also know that your parents will adore their grandchild and help u anyway they can.
Answer by Michigan-Mom74 at 3:02 AM on Feb. 6, 2011
Answer by Michigan-Mom74 at 3:08 AM on Feb. 6, 2011
Wow...that man is a real asshat. I'm sorry you're being treated this way.
I'm so happy you decided to continue your pregnancy. I know it will be hard, but like you said, it's double the blessing. Definitely tell your parents..they would want to know. And, seek help at a crisis pregnancy center. They have counselors there that can help you deal with Mr. Insensitive, and they can help you get all the things you'll need for your little ones. God bless you :)
Praying for you...
Answer by brandyj at 3:13 AM on Feb. 6, 2011
Answer by meandrphoto at 3:35 AM on Feb. 6, 2011
Answer by cwsmommy10 at 4:06 AM on Feb. 6, 2011
Answer by neng999 at 5:02 PM on Feb. 6, 2011