? without you? I'm a little confused by the question...but you pray before they get on the plane and ask them to call you when they land, then you keep in contact through internet and phone if you can. It'll be over before you know it.
When my hubby has deployed, or been stationed in Korea, we just have to stay busy. I've got the kids, so they do more then enough to keep me busy. And I go to school. We talk a lot when he's gone, so that helps. I send him things every 2 weeks or so. I just go on with life. I have to, I can't just stop.
You mean the bio father bringing the kids to his home country without you?
I would never let that happen.
But if you mean. going to a different country as a family vacation type thing? My DH is retired army we where in Germany 2 times. We just got passport and went. No problem.