Here's the issue I married a man who has been divorced since 2005 and was married for 23 years to her, they both agreed to divorce (not getting alone) well we met and got Married in 2009 and it has been awesom.
So since 2009 I have shown respect to his ex wife by going to his grandchildrens b days and sitting and laughing with her and the phone calls she makes to him since we got together (she never called him when he lived alone) wanting to talk about old times etc. Now they have 2 grown children with big issues..one is a meth user and one a pedifile but I deal with them always calling and begging for cash and the ex.
Now that i'm having a little problem with my lazy 16 year old, we argue at each other all the time it seems but he get on GREAT with my Husband he just gives me a hard time about once a week. Now it's a big problem for my husband and he says he's stressed well shit i'm stressed dealing with the ex and his grown ass kids but i'm dealing with it because of him. My husband is giving me the cold shoulder now and if he expects me to kick out a 16 year old I cant it's against the law, he knew i had a son when he married me. I try to put his past family issues in the past especially his ex who still calls for a ride to see her son in prison i say nothing but he can't get over my son's yelling and says he needs space now. I told him if you want to seperate leave but you can't come back i will still have my son and I don't go backwards if you want to go just go I won't beg you to stay....What do you think I wont pick him over my son....
Answer by tyfry7496 at 12:44 PM on Feb. 6, 2011
How sad that you've stood by him through all of the drama with his family and now that your child is having some issues he's not as supportive. Do whatever you need to do for your son, hopefully your husband will be able to pull it together and give you the support that you need- good luck!!
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