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video games and men......

ok my man is all over his video game at night. Once he starts he never stops and its like everything else don't matter to him when he is playing. lol if the house was burning down he wouldnt notice. yeah that bad he plays soo late by the time he gets off he just passes out. and i want tlc lol I dont care if he plays it , I just wish he would make some us time too. and if your man is like this tell me what you do to get him off of it? any advise


Asked by tearb at 2:05 PM on Feb. 6, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • Luckily my hub realized on his own that he was playing on his game system too much.  If he hadn't of I would have talked to him about it.  It's frustrating and lonely for the other person who isn't in to playing on it.


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 2:12 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • My SO is 41 and does the same thing and I get so pissed off at him...we are also having a baby together and I have told him im not into this crap of him spending our time in front of the stupid game!!!!

    Answer by michellesgirls2 at 2:10 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • this has been an issue in my marriage for yrs. if he's playing all day and night the last thing i want to do is have sex with him.

    Answer by proudmom611 at 2:20 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • Play with him and have fun. If you don't know how to play, let him show you and include yourself in whatever he is doing.

    Answer by sexyfancyface at 3:01 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • spank him with one of the big boards like in grade school when we were little, the holes help it to hurt more.


    Answer by coffeeyum at 2:07 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • my DH says the best way to get him to quit playing would be for me to show him some then maybe talking and cuddling after sex. (this is considering all children are asleep or not home)

    Answer by mommy_jules at 2:29 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • I game too. But when I want some attention, I tell mine to quit playing with that controller and come play with me. He hasn't refused yet. Sometimes, I'll sit next to him gaming on my laptop while he's gaming on the 360, we joke, laugh and have a good time together. But when it's time to get our groove on, it's time and no games stop it.


    Answer by SweetSprinkles at 3:07 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • Stand naked in front of the tv

    Answer by Opie99 at 3:26 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • lol seriously.. just get naked and stand in front of him somehow. that usually does the trick.

    Answer by febmom007 at 4:47 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • ya thats how if feel when he is playing that im one cafemom lol but i rather spend some time with him of course

    Comment by tearb (original poster) at 2:15 PM on Feb. 6, 2011