i've been friends with adulterers, a sister to one, and committed adultery myself(once knowingly, once unknowingly). i loved all three of us, but didn't appreciate being 'used' as an excuse to commit adultery by the friend(subsequently quit going out with her, because she'd always hook-up, knowing her husband thought she was with me), and by my sister(who knew i'd never tell-all persons involved were great friends, and fellow church-members). i do not look at my own adultery(he was married, i wasn't) with pride or excuse..i was wrong, and should have refrained. it has,however, made me look at things from a different perspective. no one knows why anyone else makes the choices they make, no one else has to live with those decisions...only one responsible for me is me.
at 8:06 PM on Nov. 16, 2008