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how often do u give oral sex and how often do u get it back? adult content

my husband loves me to give him oral sex all the time but i hardly ever get it and it kinda sux but it doesnt really cause ne problems should i just get over it???

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mnb06

Asked by mnb06 at 7:11 PM on Feb. 6, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I give it every so often when we have time,or energy,for round 2! I get it more than I give it. He loves to make me have orgasms!
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:17 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • I alternate.  My hub is working nights now.  When he is off, the kids stay up later than he does.  I wake him up later on with oral.  Sometimes we have sex afterwards, sometimes I finish with oral.  There have been plenty of times in our relationship where he did all of the oral and I rarely did it at all so personally, no I wouldn't make a big deal about it.  When I am in need of a mouth induced O, I ask him for one.  I know it sounds simple, but hey, whatever works.

    MrsHouston47302

    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 7:26 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • i in a similar situation... i give more then i recieve... sometimes its like UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH PPLLEEAASSSEEEEEEEEE but its been like almost a year for me.. him.. about 2 weeks. i even told him.. its not that fair... give and recieve... ya know?!
    mommyoftristan

    Answer by mommyoftristan at 7:30 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • Depends on mood. But for the most it's even.
    red_head_mommy2

    Answer by red_head_mommy2 at 7:56 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • never have done it and never will, the thought grosses me out. I am not a big fan of getting it either
    shivasgirl

    Answer by shivasgirl at 8:17 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • I give more than I receive, but not by much. My husband is very giving!
    la_sirena22

    Answer by la_sirena22 at 8:26 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • Sometimes I give and do not receive, mostly because I'm having my period. Other then that, we do for each other every time we have sex. Every once and a while we don't, but for the most part, we do. There have been a few times where I've received and not given, but not much. It's a huge turn on for us both.
    Raine2001

    Answer by Raine2001 at 8:26 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • I recieve more than I give... ~*Smiles*~
    MommaClark3

    Answer by MommaClark3 at 8:40 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • My husband would take it anytime he can get it. However, I don't like giving oral and so I usually don't. Just as a treat every so often.
    DH rarely gives oral and I am okay with that. Chalk it up to me not being very sexual at all. I'm okay if I never get sex .. But because he loves sex (like most people) I treat him.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 8:40 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

  • Fair deal : It's a give'n take play with us. Once or twice a day at least.
    lillyblue111

    Answer by lillyblue111 at 8:53 PM on Feb. 6, 2011

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