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my hubby thinks im not enjoying him anymore..i just want to add toys..

ok..which is partly true...we have been to gether over 12 yrs..an sex has sorta bcome predictable..i just wanted to bring some toys into the relationship..he feels like we dont need any toys..he says that the only a woman want to bring toys into the relationship is if she feels like she wants someone else..an i told him thats not true i just want to spice up our sex life..i have a few but he has never used them...he says i am wrong for askin him about bringin them in..
am i wrong..

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FreeSpriT4eva

Asked by FreeSpriT4eva at 1:12 AM on Feb. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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  • get a sex book and try new positions and oils and things like that some men do really get their feelings hurt if u add toys...how would u feel if he asked for a pocket pussy
    suhweetness

    Answer by suhweetness at 1:21 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • well i actually asked him if he wanted one..he declined..i wouldnt b mad if he did..honestly if he felt the need for one i would surely buy him one..
    FreeSpriT4eva

    Comment by FreeSpriT4eva (original poster) at 1:24 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • lol thas cool i just told my SO i was going to go get some toys and he was like ok....maybe just buy thigs that would pleasure both of yall like a vibraating cock ring....i know guys are intimadated buy dildos
    suhweetness

    Answer by suhweetness at 1:26 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • lol lucky u..i already have a glass dildo..he doesnt want to use it...im actually goin online right now looking at the ring cocks now that u have said it..m/b if i surprise him with it he will let me bring it in the room
    FreeSpriT4eva

    Comment by FreeSpriT4eva (original poster) at 1:31 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • yup if he wears it upside down it will vibrate on his balls some men love that and depending on your position on your clit or ass so much fun things to do lol
    suhweetness

    Answer by suhweetness at 2:46 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • Start becoming spontaneous sometimes men have huge egos and you may have bruised his a little maybe you should have just brought them out during the act like hey lets try this, other than that maybe lay off let him pursue you

    ExtremlyUnique

    Answer by ExtremlyUnique at 2:51 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • lest he insecure
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 2:08 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • both have to love each other and agree with the favorite thing both like use love dices .
    GlitteribonMom

    Answer by GlitteribonMom at 4:17 PM on Feb. 7, 2011

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