I'm maried 18 years. He was married before and have a wonderful son. We came to the US and he never send alimony back to our home country... We have 2 kids, 16 & 12. I'm a Realtor and paid for his 5 year studies to be a Nurse. He graduated, but he slipped up with his Visa and now cannot get work authorization. Now he is a handyman, not making enough to support us. He's FAT, drinks, snores and fart in his sleep and is just a total slob. You cannot walk in the garage, so much junk! I love to keep a clean, organized home and want to know where everything is... he just dumb everything. We are over $60K behind on taxes, because he did not want to use a professional to do our taxes. When I say we need to take care and talk to someone, he gets angry.
Do I love him? Not enough. We became friends after his divorce. He tried to commit suicide after his ex wife left and I think I felt sorry for him. We got married within 6months. Sometimes we're good friends, but the bad times are far more. Our whole house atmosphere is horrible. My 12 year old is constantly crying, asking us to stop the fighting. I am more and more becoming a bitter person that I do not like.
I am scared at what he might do if I suggest leaving. I will go back to South Africa, but I think he will kill us all before that happens...Answer Question
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