I'm not someone that usually complains but I am sick of it and need to rant.
My husband and I were blessed with a wonderful son four years ago that I thank God everyday and have been trying to have another baby for a few years with no success. A family member and her on again off again boyfriend had a baby two years ago and gave the baby up for adoption then in September she gave birth to baby girl that we where planning on adopting till they “changed their mind last minute” so papers where signed that we understood they wanted to keep the baby and we wouldn’t make them feel pushed to change her mind back then in December they went to a different adoption agency then we were working with and gave her up for adoption through them, they told us they wanted to give her the best live possible and knew adoption was the best plan but thought it would be too hard for them to see us with her during family things which was hard but we understood (the first time she said she didn’t want to be parent then the second because of drugs, alcohol, anger issues, being in and out of juvenile hall and jail since she was 12 and he was 15 and no employment). Then I just found out today she’s 6 weeks pregnant but feel that this time she’s “ready” for a baby. So I am just pissed how is it that someone that can get pregnant that didn’t want kids or shouldn’t have kids but people that want them so bad not be able to can anyone answer that for me?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:15 AM on Feb. 7, 2011 in General Parenting
Answer by dragonqueen at 4:18 AM on Feb. 7, 2011
Answer by denanay80 at 4:22 AM on Feb. 7, 2011
Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 4:39 AM on Feb. 7, 2011
Answer by Brooke505 at 4:40 AM on Feb. 7, 2011
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 4:49 AM on Feb. 7, 2011
Answer by MommaClark3 at 12:27 PM on Feb. 7, 2011