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2 Bumps

Does your hubby/SO know your actual number? ;-)

So many people say most women are not honest with their men about their actual number of sexual partners. But I don't think this is true. I was honest with my husband and told him that I was only with 2 guys before him. But he thinks, like other men, that whatever a woman tells you, you multiply by 2. This isn't an issue because the past is the past. Were you honest with your man or did you subtract? :-)


Asked by True_Gator_77 at 10:42 AM on Feb. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (29)
  • Mine knows my number. He doesn't care. My history helped form the woman he fell in love with.

    Answer by mandaday at 11:56 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • My Hubby doesn't care, that was my past, and we don't live in the past...

    Answer by MrsLeftlane at 10:44 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • I was honest with him because I did say that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. I never went into details but he knows all my exes the ones that I believed I love he knows what they look like. I never want him to run into one with me and feel that there is something between me and that person. As for him I know some of the past ones I really know the number but not all the faces to go along with the people.

    Answer by karing4elmas at 10:45 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • We were in mid-high school when we met. He is my number. haha!

    Answer by r.e.l.s.m.o.m. at 10:47 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • My husband doesn't want to know... and honestly I don't want to know his. Most people end up making such a big deal out of it and it shouldn't matter, the past is the past.

    Answer by ConcernedMom141 at 10:44 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • Yea. But then again, mine isn't really anything to hide.

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 10:44 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • weve never really talked about it...its past...dont know his either

    Answer by rebeccadac at 10:45 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • I've only been with my husband, so no problems there.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:46 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • Yep. 6 isn't exactly a shocking number,so I had no problem telling him

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:46 AM on Feb. 7, 2011

  • I was totally honest with my DH about how many people I had been with, just as he was honest with me. I am a firm believer that having sex is a wonderful things and that the past is the past. I might have learned a lot from the other people I was with, although my DH is the one who gets to reap the rewards of that.

     I don't think I DH even cares I mean we have been together for 16 years and married for 13, so in our house it is ancient history!


    Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 10:46 AM on Feb. 7, 2011