I work fulltime outside the home, go to school full time online, and raise 3 children. My dh is self employed and does manual labor cutting trees, firewood, wood working, and misc. jobs. Once in a while he gets a bug up his butt and demands that I need to help him work in the woods with him. Now IMO he choose his job, I did not. I don't think it is fair for him to assume I should spend my one day off doing his work for him, while he took the time to maybe go fishing earlier in the week. I don't feel that is my problem because when it is all said and done, I will still have to cook dinner, do dishes, do laundry, and clean the house, not him.
I get really irritated with his attitude about it when I can't. Like this weekend I did something to my foot, I don't even know what but I could not walk on it at all on Sunday and he said he was tired of my "bullshit excuses". I am sorry but I worked all week and I seriously injured my foot and I hate his frickin attitude. My responsibilities are my responsibilies, yet his responsibilites apparently mine as well. Now if I had the time and had he not had is "play" time earlier in the week I would not be so irritated but since he did, I am!
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