I have been divorced 6 and separated ten years. He began this by talking about problems within his new marriage but it has escalated into unpredictable timing of texts which tell me he wants sex and doesnt care if he cheats on his wife. It never stops. I have tried to simply forward the texts to his new wife and she tends to think I am only starting trouble. I simply dont want his advances. Now it seems he is watching my every move. He knows what guys I am dating before my best friends do. How do I cure this? Feels very very uncomfortable and invasive. It has put a slight hesitancy on my dating habits.
We have a daughter together who is sixteen. He forces it on me to communicate via text. Doesnt answer home phone and only responds through his cell. Court order states we must keep all numbers available to each other. Plus I have taken them to police. They say to hire a lawyer. Gosh the one thing I don't need right now is more expense. Besides the fact its more fighting. Court should be the last resort and she is going to of age in nine months.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:20 PM on Feb. 7, 2011 in Relationships
Actually get a consultation with a lawyer. You can get somethings changed and since he is the one causing the trouble depending on how the laws are set up he could be paying for your attorney fees to get everything changed.
Answer by Alanaplus3 at 11:56 PM on Feb. 7, 2011
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Answer by Anonymous at 10:23 PM on Feb. 7, 2011
Answer by letstalk747 at 10:24 PM on Feb. 7, 2011
i would simply Change my Number & if he takes you to court b/c he doesn't have it- Show the judge all of the Text Messages he has sent you & i am sure the judge will be on your side! Wishing you lots of luck:)
Answer by daisyb at 11:05 PM on Feb. 7, 2011
Answer by gypsymama532 at 11:09 PM on Feb. 7, 2011